Let’s talk about sex!!!
I’m going to go ahead and say “you’re welcome” in advance for this one, LOL. Once again in an attempt to better connect with the RLW frequenters, regulars and happenstance visitor, I’ve decided to stretch the limits of the blogs prior existence.
This is the first INTERVIEW interview, in RLW history and if I do say so myself, it’s a pretty good first shot (subject matter wise). Ladies & gentlemen, I would like to introduce you to Geri C. A writer, blogger, former CORE model (recently retired) from the Washington DC area. From the articles/postings of varying topics of hers she’s shared with her readership, let’s just say that I’m a fan of her delivery, lol. Enough of that though, here’s the interview. Let’s see if you can figure out what I mean:
RLW: Sex. If you had to, how would you define it? The non-Webster’s dictionary, definition. What is sex to/for you?
Geri C: Sex is a pleasurable energy that relieves every bad moment in your life. It brings two spirits together as one. Sex should be surrounded by an aura of passion. Without passion there is no such thing as sex.
RLW: In regards to your column, what sets it apart from others that exist? How would you describe the advice/insight that you provide to your readers? How long have you been doing this?
Geri C: What sets my column apart is that I speak to my readers as if I’m sitting face to face with them. I want everything I say to be completely honest. Whether I’m cursing or talking about the benefits of a stiff dick; I want it to be real! The advice/insight I provide to my readers is very blunt. I don’t sugar coat anything. I have a “tell it how it is” attitude. I’ve been writing my sex column since 2006 but I grew up learning a lot about sex. That is one thing my mom never hid any facts on, lol!
RLW: Have you received any flack or side-eye’s from any of your friends, family or co-workers, because of your column?
Geri C: Of course I have from some. They judge certain topics I write about. I don’t let it bother me because this is what I love to do. It’s not for everyone to understand or accept. As long as my mother doesn’t say anything then I’m good. She actually promotes my site to her co-workers and helps me with topics to write about. I have a really good support system. I’m grateful for that.
RLW: When you think about your column, do you get as much out of writing it (therapy, fun, etc.), as your readers do? Do you just like talking about sex, is that it, lol?
Geri C: I love writing for people who can relate to me. Society has a way of making women feel like whores if they want to suck a guys dick and have him stick it in her ass afterwards. I use to try and block out certain feelings because of what others might think. Those days are over! I love being myself which is a sexually free woman. The labels don’t bother me. My readers make me feel even more comfortable in my skin because we are so similar. It feels good to know that there are people that can relate to me out here in this world. I love seeing comments from readers that share my point of view. It is amazing!
RLW: I definitely can understand that sentiment. So I’m a fairly regular reader of your column, but for those that aren’t, what topic would you say is the one that has received the most attention/feedback? And why do you think it has gotten the attention that it has?
Geri C: Anal sex, is the number one topic on my site. I think so many people want to try it but are nervous and scared. They just don’t know what to expect. I tried to give them the easiest steps to achieve this but so many readers still have questions for me. I have to remind them to not let their fear stand in the way. Fear in the bedroom holds a lot of couples back from being themselves.
RLW: What’s the one complaint about men, that you hear the most from women?
What’s the one complaint about women, that you hear from men?
Geri C: Men don’t multi-task enough. Women can be very complex when learning the do’s and don’ts to turning them on. The perfect way to get over this hump is by multi-tasking. When your fucking her from the back try playing with her clit at the same time. Women love a man that can think outside of the box and go the extra mile.
Women don’t like to give head. Some think they will get throat cancer and others just don’t like the idea of a dick being in their mouth. I always tell women that giving head is a craft that you have to work at. Without practice you will not get any better. Excuses don’t take away from the fact that many men love getting head. Just take your time and learn what he likes. The perfect way to know exactly what kind of way to suck his dick is by watching him jerk off.
+ Top 5 Questions submitted from RLW.com Readers +
1. What’s the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm?
Even though I love both there is a difference. A clitoral orgasm is when a woman can achieve a full blown orgasm without a man’s dick entering her pussy. She only makes contact with her clit. When I masturbate I only play with my clit. I never enter my pussy. Vaginal orgasms are when your fucking a guy and he continuously hits your g-spot. He might even mess with your clit too. It really just depends on who you’re dealing with.
2. How do you give good head without choking?
By using your tongue and the roof of your mouth more. Being able to deep throat is a talent everyone isn’t capable of performing. You have to suck his dick to the best of your abilities. I always say practice makes perfect! Always push your limitations further and never get comfortable. With these steps you could become a deep throatin pro!
3. What’s the “proper way” to introduce anal into the bedroom conversation?
There is no proper way. A woman will tell you if she likes that or not. I’d test her by sticking a finger in her ass to see how she reacts to it.
4. I read some years ago…that females who have unprotected sex with men fall in love faster than guys who use condoms, due to a secretion men give off from their “pre-cum” and it attaches to the walls of the vagina…i wanted to know how true that was?
I don’t think that is true. There is just a major difference in fucking a guy without a condom. You can actually feel the warmth of his dick between your legs. When a guy wears a condom you can’t really feel shit but the rubber. That’s why a lot of females are in relationships; they love a dick with no rain coat. If you’re not committed to someone you better wear a condom.
5. Straight men watching gay porn, what’s your take?
They are curious. I feel like they may have had thoughts about it, but just don’t wanna go thru with it.
What’s one thing men (and women) need to start or stop doing, sexually?
+ Men- need to stop letting women bitch them in the bedroom. Get some control while fucking her.
+ Women- need to be more open minded in the bedroom. They worry about the labels way too much. Its time to blossom sexually.
“I just want to thank Running Likwid Works for taking the time to interview me. Also I would like to S/O every person that never frowned their face up because of my column. I receive so much support and I’m proud of that. Make sure you check my column out on www.gericsexcolumn.com.”
I would like to thank, AGAIN, Ms. Geri C for doing me a solid and blessing RLW.com with her presence. She’s been nothing short of very accomodating ever since I came up with the idea to bring her brain over to my domain (sorry, couldn’t help myself, lol). But no all jokes aside, I personally never get tired of reading this woman’s opinion on all things sex-related because she does so with no fluff whatsoever. Just straight no chaser commentary. The best way to get to it in my opinion.
Click the links below, to visit her column and read thru all of her prior articles– as well as to follow her on twitter. FYI, new columns from Geri C., can be found on her site every Tuesday afternoon @ 4pm.
Geri C: Sex Column
CLICK x READ x SUBSCRIBE x FOLLOW x SUPPORT … just don’t be no b!tch in your approach. She might not take to kindly to that, lol.
Consider this an introduction. Because we barely scratched the surface with getting into Ms. Geri and how she really and truly gets down. So make sure to hit her up and ask questions, she gets back to everyone. And depending on the feedback maybe we’ll have to do this again and dig deeper. You all decide and let me know.