Oct 14, 2009
… they finish with the babe who’s a different race.”
- as said by @chuckholliday (via Twitter)
Talk about a rather profound statement.
Not really sure where I want this post to go. So let’s just find out together. I don’t really see this being an issue across the races, so much so as it is one in the African-American community. But it’s an issue nonetheless.
When you ask black women what’s the biggest issue when it comes to finding a black man, to be in a committed relationship with, you normally get the same response. They’re either:
- on the down low (D.L.)
- married (but lying about it)
- or flat out… “they ain’t about shyt… .. .” – I just like hearing that one
However the one that isn’t often mentioned, but will cause a VERY noticable shift in attitude when brought up, is black men going outside their race (ESPECIALLY to date white women).
Ladies… I have my opinions on why this is.. . but I’d prefer to hear from you all.
What’s the deal with your negative reaction to seeing a black man with a white woman? And does it make a difference if he’s with a woman of some other race (non-black / non-white)? Speak on it…